Maybe I'm missing something but the only advice I've really seen given here is basically "see a therapist and don't lie to them".
Where are the "you go grill!/everyones a tranny" posts people are referring to?
They don't exist. Never have. Never will. It's one of the biggest straw(wo)men out there.
(By the way, you're still stuck in your dyslexia thread.)
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.