I've been given so much great information here since joining and read some fascinating threads (thanks Isha, Jenniferathome and many others for helping me see this another way) There's just one nagging question I had to put to you all before I give up trying to understand all this and go live life with my H instead
Why don't more women crossdress?? (Or put another way, why DO more men crossdress than women?)
I mean, I vividly recall moments in my life when I thought being a boy would be SO much better. I didn't want to wear the restrictive dresses and shoes or sit like a 'little lady' while the boys climbed trees. I wanted to climb one as well! Then, enter the monthly nightmare all GGs are forced to live with and I swear that day I looked at my carefree male cousins frolicking in the sea (yep, we were on vacation, just to make the whole thing worse!) and I was done. I wanted to be a boy because boys got to stay the same!
But, I guess I got over it? I mean, I never tried my father's clothes. I never even thought of presenting as a boy even though my curiosity sounds similar to many here. I actually think I hated being a girl on these days more than some here hated being a boy. (And once a month I feel it all over again!) And I will always wonder what it's like to live the more carefree, hormone-free life of a male. But I still never started crossdressing.
Why???
(Of course, if you can answer this, you've probably solved the whole thing and we can close the forum and all go home, lol)
