Is it the label itself,the ignorance of the labeling person,or the [possible] repercussions that bother you the most? I will add in that by my own experiences,feel that women are usually more reserved in their judgements. Sometimes I play up to those people that want to label! Often,when describing my work in the LGBT community on behalf of the UU church,I will just tell them that "I do all the queer things as ambassador for the UU church"..They don't know what to think as I beat them to the label! In fact I am doing a benefit race for the "queer kids" tomorrow morning! So,do the possible labels bother you?
