So, I have recently found out that my boyfriend crossdresses. We have been off and on for about 3 years now and he recently told me a few months ago. I was in shock at first and didn't know what to think or what to even say. I am now begining to become used to it all and im trying to support him as much as I possibly can, I have began to help pick out clothes for him and suggest certain outfits. All of this wasnt something I was expecting to have to deal with in this relationship but I love him no matter what. I would do anything for him and I hope to be able to be there for him through everything.
Does anyone know of ways I can be more supportive or any ways that can help me adjust to all of this?
So, ever since I found out about my boyfriend crossdressing I have been trying to find new wasy to support him. Here is a list of a few ways I have come up with and also read about!
1. Let him know as much as possible that you will love him know matter what.
2. Help him pick things to wear.
3. Appriciate the effort that he puts into his outfit when he dresses.
4. Compliment him on his makeup.
5. Listen to him when he wants to talk about dressing.
6. Be open to new things that you know would be supoortive and enjoyable to him and will make him more comfortable with himself while he is dressed.
Not sure if any of this helps or is even worth reading. I just had the urge to write this and I hope it might help someone in my same situation!
