... Anyhow, she has asked me to ask y'all ... for those of you who do shave, and are married, how do your wives feel about this? Does it cross a line for them as well? ...
No line crossed. She is quite used to it now but I think she prefers my leg hair as it is more "normal" for men. I have shaved for years and have never had an odd question about it.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.