That was my wife's question.
Why didn't you tell me before we got married? I'm not sure what I would have done ...
My reason/excuse is that I didn't really know myself that well. I thought I was the only one in the world.
OK. I understand that should I get into another relationship, I should disclose fully and early. But, what about in 1978.
How many of you disclosed before marriage? How many of you disclosed before 1985, to be arbitrary?
