So I've had a couple instances lately where the topic of conversation turns to spouses. I try to only refer to my ex-wife as my "EX". I even avoid the use of gendered pronouns. And the people I'm talking to have then made a reference to my "ex-husband". I intentionally neglect to correct them. Does that make me a bad person? I know it's a lie of omission but I still feel a little guilty about doing it. On the other hand, I'm overjoyed that they don't have a clue about my past. How do I get over this feeling that I'm doing something wrong?