Right, Pamela look at Melissa's post above.
Did you mean someone having had no thought, no desire, no fantasy, no fascination, no inkling whatsoever until middle age when they discovered they enjoyed CDing, or did you mean someone who didn't give themselves permission and act upon it until older, even though there was some hint, or interest, or thought, or inkling, that was there earlier.
If you look at Carla4guage and Crissy Kay's posts, they describe actual dressing up only with no mention of whether or not they ever enjoyed looking at or thinking about women's clothes, in ways that are different than men who are not crossdressers.
