Is it really about passing??

[Nashmau]

@ Judy

well, i am not a crossdresser, but a GG. I look everyday through the pictures in the galary, but never write a comment in there. Because i dont want to crush there dream of passing. But i give will give you some pointers, because it is important for some ppl:

Everytime when someone in this forum cries they got clocked, i check if they have pictures. then i look over them and think, well yeah no wonder. if i take the hrt ppl out of the equation, i can remember out of my head only 3 people in the picture galary, that would pass by me. and interestgly they are at least 65, but look younger then they are.

A lot of you totally ignore, for whom you actually try to pass. for man or for women.

our brain and our eyes look differently. and very often, we dont even know it.
For example: a men spends more time then you think looking at your face especially the eyes, then chest, then hip and then legs
A women spends the same time at the face, but looks at different places on the face, they mostly checking the place under the eyes, they will then go from top to bottom and that happens in milliseconds. a Man mostlikly will check the overall picture, while a women checks details. there are multiple eyetracking studies on that one.

And if i just take the ppl from the picture forum and again HRT ppl are not included in that, Eyebrows, Neck, Hands are hugely important, an other thing is anatomy half of the picture are anatomicly wrong and that is just the start. but it gives you some pointer.

so in the end, for whom do you want to pass: for a women? then you need correct details. for a men? get the overall picture right. for both? then do both.


I hope my post didnt hurt to much and i sincerely apologise if it did!!


there is one more thing, i would like to point out:

passing isnt always the best. If you are being natural and confident, then you will blend right in and i guarantee you, noone will bother with a 2nd thought!