Consider a scenario: you come home to find your SO has: cut their hair short and boyish, glued on a smart false beard, strapped down her breasts, packed a fake penis, and is wearing men's clothes. She announced that "he" wants to be called "Bob", and to promptly walk into town with you to go shopping, arm in arm:
a) with you in guy mode,
b) with you in girl mode.
My questions are:
1. what is your response/acceptance to Bob?
2. how does this compare to what you expect from your SO when you are dressed?
3. how would this change your relationship to your SO over time?
For the record, I'm owning up to being a hypocrite, and really don't know how I would cope with it; thus I am asking.
