My male and female gender identities are different. Its like Clark Kent and Super(wo)man. I can't be both at the same time. How is it for you? Is it like that? Do you have two (or more) identities? Do the two identities merge at some point in life? Should I seek counseling... LOL I kind of like it as it is

Of course everyone does have multiple personalities... Marcia, Marcia, Marcia, eat a snickers bar.