I had a meeting with my substance abuse counselor this morning. If any of you remember in one of my threads, I mentioned we tried to talk about my cross dressing. In that the first question he asked was "are you gay?" He instantly made it clear to me that he was clueless about this topic.
This morning he wanted to continue with the conversation. I shut him doing hard. He asked why, I told him because he already let it known that cross dressing is something he doesn't know anything about. He asked why I said that and I told him because the first thing he asked was the very stereotypical question "am I gay". Which people who don't understand ask right off. He got rather upset and went on a long rant about how far I have come and that talking about this is another step in becoming a new person after drinking. He also made it clear that he thinks this is something that can be "cured" and it's not a healthy thing for males to want to do. He did apologize for upsetting me initially and finally let the topic drop. But he said he would like to talk about it more in the future if and when I want to.
I shut him out of this topic. He was upset about that but in the end I am not going to talk about it with someone who obviously has some prejudice about cross dressing.
