Recently I saw a thread on sex while dressed a couple of the responses peeked my interest as they hit home for me.
The response from a couple people was that while dressed they find themselves to be more passive almost submissive not only in their demeanor but in their sexual desires. Diplomatically put some even dreamed of and/or preferred penetration opposed to the traditional male to female sex.
My husband is a fairly high level professional male at work and a somewhat dominant personality both in and out of the bedroom in male mode.
I am a fairly assertive professional as well a bit of a tom boy with exception of my appearance I am not leaving the house without make-up but I am equally as comfortable in evening gowns as I am in jeans. Meaning my appearance doesn't alter my personality more than slightly. For him the difference is extreme.
When my husband is dressed I noticed particularly after a few hours the male dominate traits diminish. She takes over with her wide smiling eyes, adorable charm , playfulness, emotional openness , honestly and a certain venerability. "24-48 " hours in girl mode all I can say is "wow"
Sexually my husband changes as well. I would call it extreme as well. Let's use the phase "Far less assertive " as he finds the word submissive scary (must be a man thing) . His desire while dressed again diplomatically put is to be penetrated. An act the mainstream considers taboo however for him it adds to his femme experience to be on the other side of the equation.
Something he refused to say out loud till recently. The transformation does not scare me honestly my little tom boy giggles silently " slide over here cutie "but I do wonder if others are as exstreme .
