In the Closet, DADT, She doesn't want this, Need to Know.....

[Billy]

As mentioned numerous times my wife has all my respect and can do whatever she wishes/desires. She is her own person. Whatever she does is okay with me. She does not need nor has she ever had to answer to me. All true statements. There has never been a need for lying because people can do what they want. That is why one day after going out I told her straight out. No secrets in this relationship.

There are times my beautiful wife gets dolled up to the 10's, and she is beautiful, and she goes out with her friends dancing. Somebody they met I assume a guy sometimes gives them tickets to concerts. I guess he is a high roller and gets comped tickets for free. I think he has been at the concerts before. If my wife wants to go out she has my blessing. If she wants or needs something from me, I drop what I am doing and do what she is asking.

Very few disagreements in 22 more like 23 years of marriage. Respect? I have nothing but respect for my wife.

I have no issue with my wife or the relationship and think she has no issue either.

It seems like the underlying tone is that I cannot have what I want without her sacrificing herself. Can a person that lives alone have what they want? I read of people with grown children have concern for their grown children finding out about them. I won't have to live with that.

I do not try and never had tried to control what any person does. I have taught children from an early age to make their own educated decisions and live with the results. I am here to stay and I will keep you posted but I expect that all this will be in the open and a loving relationship will endure.

People say take it slow. Honesty cannot be slowed down. Obviously tactful communication is key but honesty is king.

If you really think there is nothing wrong with your choice of crossdressing, why hide it? Embrace it and live life.