ClosetED,
I am so glad I decided to sit down and talk with my husband! We had an open and honest conversation and it actually went a lot better than I thought. He opened up more to me than he did the day I found out. I asked so many questions and he answered all of them. He does not care who sees him in public, just as long as it's not someone he knows, which is why he has walked out the front door for our neighbors to see, because we do not know our neighbors very well. One of the questions I asked him was if he would ever tell his family and friends about it, and he said he's not sure if he ever will. He is worried about his loved ones judging him. I also asked if he knew what caused him to start dressing (he started when he was a kid) and he said he wasn't sure. We talked about clothes, makeup, and he also showed me his painted toes he did the previous night. And I did make a little joke about him buying me lingerie the next time he orders something online, and he laughed. I am so glad I went through with talking to him, and with the help of you all it gave me the courage to do so. I hope that these open and honest conversations with my husband will continue on!
