Hi
My husband is a cross dresser and I would have never thought in a million years I would be writing this. My husband is the macho type and has always been mr handy man and still is. He is a hairdresser and specializes in woman's hair. A few years ago I noticed woman's cloths in my home.First thing I thought he was cheating. Then he said he said he was not. So I let it go a few months later I found other items around the house and press on nails and wigs. I immediately knew something was going on and confronted him . He denied it all and I became furious. Fast forward early this year I noticed a lot of times his underwear and pants would go missing. He was hiding them and dressing . I finally told him I know what your doing a few weeks ago and he came out and told me the truth. I have been researching this for years and he knows it. So he just broke down and told me it started a few years ago. That night I told him to show me himself in dress up. So he did he was scared and so was I but I wanted to see what my husband was hiding . That night we had sex with him all dressed up. Since then we have Been having sex sometimes in his bra and undies . My main concern is is he gay? He swears he is not but why does he like being a bottom and 2nd why does he still dress every night behind my back. I know when he does bc he doesn't have underwear on in the morning. I am so confused . When he is dressed as a girl he doesn't act any different . He doesn't have a girl name he just says it's a sexual thing. I am not sure. What should I do. Some days I think of divorce bc I am not sure if he is wanting to sleep with men. Since he likes to be a bottom at times. I am so lost.
