Hello everyone!

I got some questions for some of you.
I know some people say that the desires or anything about wanting to do any of what is usually mentioned in this forum can't be cured. However, I would like to know if any of you knows a way to at least make them reduce with the time. Although I sometimes feel like I want to be "cured" from liking or wanting to be girly in some way. I know there's some people who have purged and "re-stocked" plenty times, so if you have seen anything that would be key, please tell me.
Just in case, I still got some things and I have considered purging, but at the same time I don't want to. So should I use fire or simply toss them into the trash before I want to wear them again?

I know, I might seem a bit of a masochist in some way, but recently this has brought nothing but problems to me (sort of).

If you have read all of my post, thank you for your attention and have a nice day.