I'm with you on this one Sherry. I have absolutely no desire to look like a school headmistress in a plaid skirt. I want to look well dressed but sexy. In fact, a real woman can be sexy in any clothes, just by virtue of being a woman - the softness in the face for example and the expressiveness in the eyes - I'm thinking of say Emmylou Harris. But as a cross dresser, it's something else that I want to portray. Paradoxically, I mostly want to be seen as sexy by women themselves, attractive to women as a man in a dress. Not be one of them - except in the same way that I already enjoy being in women's company as a man.Originally Posted by docrobbysherry
First off, I don't dress to blend or have any interest in going out dressed to Denny's or Walmart. Also, what one middle aged woman's opinion is doesn't concern me.
I just returned from a week dressed in Vegas. Not dressed like a hooker but like a classy, sexy young woman. As did most of the other 250+ T girls there!
Unfortunately, I am old and obviously a MIAD! Still, I got plenty of thumbs up, "U go, girl"s, and other encouragement as I walked thru casinos, restaurants, and along the Strip alone. Mostly from young women!
I encourage all of u to go out dressed in what makes u comfortable and confident. There's no way u can or will be accepted by everyone unless u pass 100% of the time. Just remember, don't let one bad apple ruin your girl times!
I guess that's not the reason everybody here dresses. And I don't want to denigrate those who want to somehow emulate, to a reasonable degree, real women. We are free, within the mores of society at large, to express ourselves any way we see fit. But it isn't, and it needn't, be the same thing for all of us.
