I haven't read this particular thought here and was wondering if anyone else felt this way...
I don't hate being a crossdresser or that I like things that, generally, are the prerogative of the genetic female. But, I do find that I actually feel bad that my wife is somewhat stuck with a man who doesn't fit her masculine ideal. I have no desire to meet that ideal, but still feel bad that she doesn't have that "need"met. I truly wish she'd had the man she'd dreamed of, but I don't care a bit about being that man.
I married a very feminine woman and love that part of her. I can understand her wish to be with the reciprocal man. I'm not that guy... She still loves me dearly and shows me daily. But, the feeling that she?d change me in a second if she could bothers me to the core...
Thoughts???
