As I am evolving and becoming more comfortable with going out dressed I am trying to decide and how to approach the subject with friends. A bit of background so you can give advice I live in Canada in Nova Scotia in one of it cities which in some respects still has the small time town feeling where people seems to know each other even if they do not live in the same town. Also Canadians are so polite to the point they will not say things even to friends so as not to offend them. So with my CDing I have lived a double life my male side which most of the world sees and my female life that very few people have seen. I have come to the point were I am tired of the double life and want the freedom of not worrying that I will run into friends while in fem mode. The help I need is how do you approach the subject with friends to tell them of my cding.