(sticking to the forum's slant)
I guess I'd have to respond with "a miracle".
I'd say that what would "really make me happy" would be for my wife to change from barely tolerant of my -um- 'ways', into fully accepting and encouraging.
I'm pretty timid and to be able to follow my dreams, I'd need a cheerleader in my corner, saying "you go, girl" and giving me a loving nudge (or even a shove) whenever I get afraid and balk at doing something I really want deep down inside.
It's not going to happen. I know that. But I can dream, can't I?
