I?m always careful the best I can when out dressed. I realize most on here are cross dressers but there?s many transgender here too. I just read another story about a mtf. Transgender was killed a few days ago. Too many have died due to all the violence and racism going on the last few years. We all need to be careful especially the one with the van, what a good place yo grab someone and throw them in a van and drive off. Please be careful and sounds like you did a good job handling yourself. God speed.