It has been a week since I was 'caught' by my wife (see "Curiosity and Fear" thread for details). Nothing to report. I'm still dressing and enjoying it. My spouse, despite many opportunities when it is just the two of us at home and nothing going on, has not touched the subject. I prepare myself almost daily for the possibility of having the conversation -- and am not panicked at the possibility. Knowing her, it is probable that she is willing to let the matter drop as long as nothing new is thrown out before her -- and I have no intention of letting that happen. For the present, I am regarding it as an unsaid DADT setting, which is fine with me.