Sherry ,
No not if you need or want to leave the man behind .
Leslie,
I didn't respond to him using " he and him " when he said it in front of the lady .
Allie,
It is a good point to wait and see if the lady makes a comment if I meet her without my friend , I know I can't assume she didn't notice just because she doesn't say anything .
I guess all I can do is ask him to try and use my name if he struggles to find the right pronoun , the lady concerned told me her name the first time we met and she knows me as Terri .
