Well this is my quandry I present as quite butch to the people in my work always have even though I tried to soften my approach when I grew my hair. This made no difference to the way poeple saw me psychologically though. They still see me as dyke which I don't mind if they feel the need to label me.I find it hard because I find myself fitting their stereotype of me even though I like and prefere my boi image which I feel very comfortable with. Does this sound confusing or familiar. It's wiered cos I can't be like the other women around the other women I have to be like the blokes and like the blokes are around the women staff lol it does my head in but there ya go that's life I guess when ya in flux if thats the right word. Any thoughts on this ???
