My first public outing was a mall 4yrs ago since then I have been out at least 50 times mainly shopping in the malls fortunately I live in the Minneapolis area with the mall of America being a great all day outing. Recently I have started going out to nice restaurants with what I consider a safe bar atmosphere. I also dress at hotels when traveling for work. Next on my list is a casino and I would love to sit at a crowded bar on Friday evening.