Wow thanks for all the tips girls!

And thanks for the honestly Charlotte. This is my biggest worry. Rightly or wrongly I?m definitely not ready to be ?outed? and pictures of me dressed ending up online would be devastating. I?m concerned about people on insta, TikTok etc like you say - or even photos posted by the venue itself. On the flip side I?m calculating the odds of me being in a photo AND people I know recognising it are pretty low?