Ok so it's basically unanimous that it's a bad idea. I can't add anything to that.
Ilsa, I did want to add to one sentence though... You said "It appears I've received many more inquiries as a woman than I did as a man on a service".
Women receive way more attention on dating services than guys do period. It's the norm. What is sadly also the norm is most guys on dating services tend to be creeps. Plenty of men will do the throw-spaghetti-at-the-wall-and-hope-something-sticks routine, and will send messages to every new person who appears to be female. Getting the extra attention isn't anything to be surprised about nor complimented about.
