Quote Originally Posted by Dutchess View Post
I don't need a large quantity of males " hitting" on me in some bar.
Geez, I know what you mean and ditto. For some reason I've been a backyard bug light for gay men and jewish women the latter of which I rather enjoyed. The gay men part, not so much except being admired and desired is, I'll have to say, pleasant. Getting back to the OP, I do have a longtime online friend who has married a wonderful GG that enjoys and truly gets turned on by assuming the traditional conceived male dynamic, with associated tactile accoutrements, as enhancements. Sort of a TG ying and yang that many of us have determined will never happen. As far as I've been informed, there is a mutual elevated erotic experience with the role reversal.
But, one of the primary rules of logic is that the particular does not validate the general so yes, it is a rare occurrence.
We are truly wired different. I heard something long ago that males are driven to provide, protect and cast their genetics into the future whereas females seek security and protection as they nurture.