Seems we are on the topic of what to wear this morning. I would like to pose a somewhat similar question to the group. Yesterday, a young former colleague invited me to her wedding next summer. She made a point of emphasizing that I was welcome, regardless of however I chose to present. Needless to say, I have enjoyed imagining the possible outfits I might wear to a summer wedding at an events venue, but I remain undecided.

How would you reach a decision about whether to present in male or female attire? If you chose the latter, what would you consider appropriate for an (ahem) mature woman?