I have been talking online to a guy who is a member of Stitch. He is straight I think.*We have just been talking, nothing untoward. He has told me of his marital status and that he has a daughter. He seems to be financially*secure too if I believe what he says. I think he has picked me out of the Stitch members because of my photograph. Very few of the other GG's put up good photos. I may be the best of a bad bunch, who knows?
He has been telling me how attractive I am.

From the outset he has no knowledge*of what I am or was but he still wanted to keep the conversations*private. Controlling*maybe*?All good on the first day. The next day I hear he has been out to dinner with other Stitch members and they were discussing people they may have in common.*Martin*had met me last Saturday at a dinner and must have asked about me. Luke, the guy who is messaging*me, asked Jayne, who is one of my new friends if she knew me. Between the two men, Jayne told them she was a friend and gave a glowing summation of my character*and how (to Martin) that I was a woman finishing*her transition. Luke must have overheard this or been*party to the conversation.

That last part about my transition I I found to be unnecessary.* I am out and open to my friends but it should have been my choice who I tell* that to.*The idle gossip is not something I expect from a friend.

Luke with his new information has still been talking to me this morning but still wanting our conversations to be private. I only found out about all of this with his innuendos*to my past and then letting me know who he had been talking*to last*night.
It really does not matter to me as I have no interest in a relationship with a man. I guess it does matter to him that he is conversing with a Transsexual.