We start to get comfortable with our situation and I have to remember if I want to keep this in the closet I have to be more careful. My wife got upset with me a few weeks ago. Her sisters car didn't start at a near plaza. She decided to walk to our house and got caught in a rain storm. This was her older sister, a very crusty stick in the mud. She is very verbal how she feels about cross gender and if she ever found out about me I believe she would build a wooden cross and wrap it with the pride flag and hang me on it and burn me on it.
Well when she arrived to my house drenched from the rain she went downstairs to undress and my wife had to give her some of my male clothes because she is taller then my wife.
I went to repair her car and when I got back it seamed like there was some tension in the air. I drove my sister in law back to her car and when I got back I asked my wife what happened. She told me she was getting her sister my track pants and a t-shirt and our granddaughter woke up and was crying and she left her sister downstairs telling her where my sweat socks or whatever else she needed were to finish getting changed. It case you need to know I keep all my male clothes in the basement and mixed with some fem stuff and I guess you know where this is going. My sister in law asked my wife why I have pantyhose and silk panties in my drawers and before my wife had a chance to make a bs excuse her sister stopped her telling her she didn't want to know what we do in our personal lives and there was some tension after. My wife was very upset with me because she dedicated a room for my fem stuff, she took a dresser from her mom and put it in our stare room so I could keep all my fem stuff in one place. She told me I have pantyhose in my male sock drawer and with my work clothes I have leggings and camisoles and feminine t-shirts.
She was so upset she told me that I should really seriously sit down with myself and ask myself where I want to go with this.
I don't like seeing her upset and especially about this and I don't want her feelings to change because I do like where I am with it, but I really had no leg to stand on and she was right and all I did was apologize.
This morning it happened again. I took my car to get detailed earlier this week and my wife drove me to pick it up. When I got home I opened the truck because they put all the stuff they find in the car in a box and put it in the truck. I look in the box and there was a black bra, O S$&t I automatically remember one night we were out and ran into her friends and we went back to there place and I took off the bra in the car and put it under my seat. My wife walks by me and sees the bra and tells me I'm slipping and that I deserved that my friend at the detail shop seen that. She asked if I sat down with myself yet and what I decided because it's going to be a matter of time before our children find something.
Well I decided I'm going to go through my drawers today and put my fem stuff in one place and try to be more responsible if I want to keep this in the closet. Both situations where circumstantial but these things do happen. I believe these are the things that women start to get upset, when we start getting comfortable and start slipping.