Okay, so I set two boundaries, dont bring dressing into our bedroom -period - the bedroom was to be neutral ground....
You set the boundaries so you should have set the consequences of breaking the boundaries. What is it that you wanted to do if your SO broke the rules?
If you ask yourself you will probably find you know the answer.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.