I'll add a few things that I hate: -
1. I hate the fact that I have to hide a lifestyle from people, just because society has yet to get it through their thick skulls that cd'ing isn't some weird fetish, or perverted etc.
2. I hate the fact CD'ing is blamed for marriage/couples issues, when most of the time CD'ing isn't the problem, the person is just a jerk in general.
3. I hate that fact that just because you're a CD, this does NOT mean you can go having sex with other men, WHEN YOU'RE MARRIED, it ISN'T ok!!!! (oh I've seen a lot of this lately on this board).
4. I hate the fact that the constant lying, keeping secrets, hiding things continues, even though the wife/SO is totally accepting.
You know, being a CD does not make you any different to anyone else, it doesn't give you a free pass to do what you like, to hide things, to keep secrets, to have affairs etc.... It doesn't give you the right to be hurtful, say spiteful things, treat your wife/SO like crap because they aren't accepting.
These are the things I see on a daily basis, these are the things I hate so much, it makes me sick
Sorry if I've ranted, these things aren't projected to any person in particular, just general observations from this board and others.
