How far do you go?
Once you accept you are a CD you get an appetite for more and more.
It's often a dare x dare situation where you escalate the thrill.
CD Elitism is catty bullshit in my opinion and I steer well clear of that type of childish thinking!
But encouraging others out is quite natural because you know that once people start getting out they won't want to stop. Pushing boundaries is what life is all about isn't it? If we don't shake up our little selves how can we expect the rest of the world to buck up their little ideas and get with our program!
We CD because we get satisfaction (or something) out of it. We have absolutely no idea why we CD or how it got so out of hand but it did and it is. And we love it. And we want more tomorrow! The fun is contagious and there is nothing wrong in encouraging others to feel the thrill.
Degrees of CD: CD has to be a continuum of need - judging by the wide spectrum of girls comments just on this forum alone. This is no judgement - it just is. We are all in this together just some are more advanced than others.
To the outside world CD is misunderstood - most associate CD with gay men which is, as we all know, going in the wrong direction for many CDs!
So if we need to do anything political it would be to educate society about what CD is all about and what it is not all about. Give ourselves a point of difference and a pathway for closet CDs to follow. These two practical things alone would be helpful for all of us, and for those out there who are lost.
Hugs Jazzmine
