Is crossdressing transexual purgatory?

[Nicki B]

for me crossdressing is a form of harmless expression of my feminine side pluss i love it so

For the most part, I would say that crossdressing is mainly about a ...quote: "harmless expression of a feminine side that men are not allowed to routinly express".

There does perhaps seem to be some wishful thinking, here.. If you are in a close relationship with a woman, unless she is comfortably bisexual, how can it be 'harmless'??