I think that Khriss is saying what many of us feel. We know they (the accepting GG) are out there, but they seem to be very hard to find. Particularly some of us older girls. I believe some of the younger CD's have it better (although they might argue that point)...more awareness and tolerance with a healthy dash of more liberal women in that they are less constrained by social convention. I was just born 20 years too soon!