I once had a very similar thing happen in my life. When I first started going out with my wife, we had some relationship issues. My then friends knew all about what was going on.
My then girlfriend and I went to a party at their house and I over heard the wife say "I don't want that bitch at my house"
That night I found out what they were really like. True friends don't say things like that. They accept you for who you are and what you do.
That was the last I saw them.
I married that girl 14 years ago, now have a good house with a white picket fence, 3 great kids, and overall a good life.
They have divorced after the wife found him cheating on her for the third time. He has had probably 20 differant jobs and is living out of some old trailer somewhere, hooked on cocaine a whole host of other drugs along with his drinking problem.
Moral to the story, Friends like that are not real friends. You are better off without them in your life. Enjoy the person you value the most. That is your wife. She is the true friend, She is by your side no matter what, and I would bet that she will never say anything like that.
Raychel
