Kimberly, I am sorry for your wife and I'm equally sorry that there are so many uncaring, unfeeling people in the world. When I got out of the Army in 1971, I attended a few holiday parties with my wife's work acquaintances. When asked what I did for a living, I stated that I was not yet employed, that I had just gotten out of the service. My wife and I were immediately cut from the herd. Later when I began my career in law enforcement, we were again cut from the herd. Seems people only want soldiers and cops when they personally need them. Anyway stuff happens. I imagine that you both have many friends and that is where you both should focus. I'd love to take away all of my families pains, and certainly not cause any new ones, but I'm afraid the best I can do is be there to care and console when something happens that I cannot control. My best to you both. Hugs, Mary Louise
