Well (I said, putting my hand on my hip)!
Next time you see him, say hi. He'll probably blow a cork. LOL!
Signed,
The right winging Southern Baptist from San Diego.
Well (I said, putting my hand on my hip)!
Next time you see him, say hi. He'll probably blow a cork. LOL!
Signed,
The right winging Southern Baptist from San Diego.
Naw if you are going to do it, do it right. Have bible in your hand and start preaching to him how god loves him.Originally Posted by amandachick
That guy is a total a^*hole people need to mind there own and leave others be
Angie
Hi, Vivian, if I was you, I would re-visit the food store enfemme and bring small affordable gifts, one for the cashier and one for the owner.
"What goes around, comes around." They were nice enough to defend you to the PD, I would show them my appreciation. You never know how far that little gesture will go. Don't worry, that guy will get what he deserves too!
(I was gonna suggest that you give the cashier a cigar and the owner a bottle of perfume and if they questioned you, you could say that you got them mixed up)
And, ladies, can we keep politics out of this? I have to deal with my wife every day.
Thanks,
Jacqui
Over the many years I have been dealing with crossdressing and going to crossdressing getaways I have found that the majority of the cders were conservatives, we come from all walks of life, religions, conservatives, liberals, all nationalities, rich, or poor. I just come to the conclusion that some peaple are real jerks, and it has nothing to with politics of one stripe or other there are jerks on both sides of the isle.
As for the police, I am not worried, I dont want to have to deal with that situation if I dont have to, I know by driving around enfemme, one day I will be pulled over for a traffic violation, or burned out light, or cracked windshield, I try to keep my vehicles in tip top condition, but a light could burned out any time. I will deal with the police when the time comes, because I know I am not breaking any laws by wearing a dress. I know of other cders who have been pulled over by the police and they were treated professionally by the police. anyway I want to thank you all for your comments, and please do not beat up on us conservatives here in the forum.
Vivian
Last edited by Sharon; 12-27-2007 at 03:54 AM. Reason: removed political rhetoric
It isn't illegal for a man to wear a dress or skirt. To clarify this I rang the police and asked what the law was.
The policeman said: "yes you can wear a dress. Wear a clowns outfit, we don't care. Just make sure you're not drunk when you're doing it.'
Hmmmmm I wonder how Hooter Girls get to work without being stopped for being dressed inappropriately??? I don't get out dressed to often but all my dresses are above the Knee and most are tight fitting. I have never been stopped, I have been laughed at a few times, had my behind slapped once then he found out I was a guy he turned red as a beat. Been whistled at had a few bad remarks made.
I think I don't go out often because I am afraid that someone might physically hurt me. To many nuts in the world that can't less us be. I am just a CD, married wife is supportive and am not looking for any trouble.
Think I would go out more if there was a club close by.
Just a girl fronm Long Island, NY .... always looking to meet others from my area.
So why is it different when you are drunk?
I mean, sure it's unwise (personally I think getting drunk ever is unwise, while dressed the word unwise maybe far too understated) but at what point do civil rights alter for one inebriated person and not for another?
What a jerk the guy is! I don't think it is against any laws for you if you are wearing a short skirt and top, some have suggested that you need to be dressed conservatively and that can not be true. Many woman wear mini skirts and provocative tops to the store and they are not harrased for there attire and I would think that should go the same for any of us. I have worn mini skirts to the mall and have had no fear of being singled out for my attire. I can understand if I was doing something weird or acting inapprorietly but that would be the same for a GG as well. I have been stopped by the police while en femme and just acted naturally and they were nothing but professional with me. We have rights and as long as we don't cause attention to be directed at us by our actions other than normal we should be al;lowed to be who we want to be.
Would that be a female clown outfit?
It's illegal (at least in the US) to be publicly intoxicated.
And there might be some connection between the two... I always dress up when I'm drunk!
I had a really embarrassing incident years ago when i was at drugstore en femme. as i was leaving the security alarm at the door went off. the manager made me go into the back room with another employee (female) where they searched all of my belongings. i was very scantily dressed, except for my coat. it turns out the coat i was wearing still had one of those anti-theft security tags inside one of the pockets, and they found it and were like "ok never mind". the manager says to me sarcastically "thank you for the inconveinience" (what a dick). i'm just glad they didn't call the cops on me beforehand.
I wen out last night enfemme, it felt great, it is quite cold so I dressed very warm as possible, everybody was happy to see Vivian again.
Ah well that is fair enough as it would apply equally to everyone, regardless of apparel.
The rule I use to determine if an article of clothing is indecent I ask myself does the article cover as much as a bathing suit worn at a public beach? The rule is that no matter what position your body is in you must stay as covered as the bathing suit is. If it passes that test then I say it's game. I have a few skirts that push the limit so I wear cheerleader type panties under it so in case I do show something it won't be distastful or offensive.
The problem is some people still think it is against the law for a man to dress as a woman. In many states it used to be against the law, but almost all states have repealed those laws. When I went to HEF2006, we had a forum where the Dallas police officers were they to answer questions about CDing, laws, and the police. They said first it was not against the law, that they are trained to respect the person as the gender they represent as long as that person is respectful to them and they are not breaking any laws. Here in the City of Dallas and Dallas County, it is OK for a CDer to use the Public Ladies Restrooms, as long as they are dressed as a woman and prsenting themselves as a woman. One police officer told us about a GG that came to her and complained that a man was using the ladies room. She waited for the man to come out, she was about to go in the restroom, when the woman that complained told her "there he is". She pointed to a smartly dressed woman. The police office asked for ID and confirmed that the person was a MTF CDer. She then turned to the woman that complained and told her that it was not agianst the law for him to use a public ladies room as long as he is dressed as a woman and is presenting himself as a woman and he was not breaking any laws. The woman that complained got all huffy and walked away. The police officer appoliged to the CDer for the inconvience.
I know in San Diego, and in most states, the only time it is illegal for a man to be crossdressed is if he is doing so for the commission of a crime, such as prostitution or robbery. Other than that, they can really only arrest you if you are in violation of some statute or for public indecency. There are of course some Police Officers that just like to be buttheads and harass you because they don't understand US.
Kandis
Someone once told me "Put on Your big girl panties and deal with it". If they only knew, I WAS ALREADY WEARING THEM.
I wear the bras and panties so my wife doesn't have to.
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In the UK, if you're drunk in a public place and causing a disturbance (which can be as little as walking erratically), it's what is called being "drunk and disorderly" (what a quaint phrase!), and you can be arrested - whatever you're wearing. If it's at night, you'll probably spend the night in a police cell and be cautioned. Of course, if you were driving while drunk, that's a whole other matter.
what an AZZHOLE for callin the cops,, i go out in public as a guy in skirts pantyhose and sometimes heels or boots, sure some give me looks if they even notice,,,
a skirt can NEVER be to short:D,,i am always in pantyhose 24/7 and i NEVER wear any panties of any kind,,i make sure im not showing anything im not supposed to,,its called being aware of what ur doing
i got stoped once not to long ago while dressed for not usin my turn signal,( he was lookin for dui),(i dont drink),, he had me get out of the car and watch his pen just to make sure i was safe to drive,, he had some young chicky babe in his front passenger seat, i think he was tryn to impress her,,,what realy burnd my ass is the friggin cops dont use their turn signals and i got a ticket for it,,,LEAD BY EXAMPLE COPPERS,,
to bad closed minds dont come with closed mouthes
a mind is like a parachute,, it only funtions when its open
Last edited by obsessedwithpantyhose; 12-28-2007 at 11:03 AM.
That does it. I'm going out as a female clown! :DThe policeman said: "yes you can wear a dress. Wear a clowns outfit, we don't care. Just make sure you're not drunk when you're doing it.'
I wonder if the same guy would report a woman for wearing a shirt and pants.
I not surprised that the Police were not really interested. In Western Australia the police receive training in the CD/TG lifestyle - and are instructed to act in a sympathetic manner (I've read the training manual).
The only time I've ever been in contact with the police was when they stopped me for speeding. No problems at all.
Out in public, I've walked past them several times - as long as everyone is behaving themselves they don't care.
No kidding.
Women who wear pants and skirts are shocked, just shocked a husband would do the same thing.
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