Yep, CDing limits the dating pool some, but lots of GG will love ya anyway. And maybe you wouldn't want to be married to a GG that is that intolerant.
In my third marriage I told soon - not first date, but after I knew we liked each other a lot. In the first couple dates you can gauge a persons tolerance for some things. Then you tell and take your chances.
Now having said that, my wife was supportive for about a year (shopping, make-up tips, etc), then due to some issues of her own withdrew support. And I have a huge TS streak and the issues run deeper for me than amusing cross-dressing which further taxed her supportiveness. Still, we have found our wy together, raised kids, kept high paying jobs, will have been together 16 yrs on Feb 8 - and I'd not wish to have done them with anyone else.
hugs,
'lissa
