For this past year I struggled with wigs. Not only just the color, but also the look and feel of it. I am really happy with the one I have now and I've received so many compliments on it I have to wonder what my old ones looked like. A friend of mine got a new blond wig with some black roots and she looks AMAZING and she looked great before.

I would try out that next, especially since it seems to be affecting your confidence......