Interesting question. My wife knows of me dressing but wants no part of it. She is OK with me wearing panties and I wear them about 50% of the time (always thongs). We have had sex many times when I'm wearing thongs. And a couple of times wearing tight highs. It feels great. She knows that I gets more excited when wearing some female items. A couple of times she asked me if I want to put on a pair of thongs during the act. Couple of weeks ago, she even mentioned that we should get matching thongs and the idea drove me wild! However, when I try to bring up to her that I want to try doing it full en fem, she want not part of it. Oh well, I'm surprised that I spill the beans on my bedroom activities in a public forum.....