what should I do? (anybody?)

[Tristen Cox]

Sorry Gina. Yes time to move on and just let it go. Once your heart races once more for a new girl, you will see you have moved in the right direction. *Hugs*

[Phoebe Diana]

as i write this i'm recovering from a four day hangover. i took my chance, but apaprently too late.

It won't help you right now to say this, but good for you, Gina! You gave it your best shot. Twenty years from now, you won't have to wonder if it all would have worked out "if only you said something".

For what it's worth, the same thing happened to me (only I didn't say anything--because the guy she was involved was too close a friend of mine). Afterwards I just decided to give up on ever finding someone. And within six weeks I met my soul mate.

My experience is that if you stop *looking*, and start *living*, doing the positive things that truly make you happy, you are letting your true self shine through, and the people who are attracted to that, will start coming to you. But it only works if you truly stop trying. It's kind of a zen thing.

And worst case, you don't find someone, but you're doing the things you enjoy.

But that's for later. Now it's still time to mourn. And I'm sorry it worked out this way, Gina.

Phoebe

[eileen1969]

I think about your senario, and my heart goes out to you! I say let her go and if she really loves you she will come back! if not then it was not meant to be....there is so much that can happen by letting go! takes love n faith which walk hand in heart! take care Love Eileen

[ginagurl]

i just wanted to thank you all for your support. well, at least ya know why i disappeared for a while. lol. i'm actually feeling pretty good about the whole thing, even though she's not talking to me. screw it, right? i mean, i kinda needed to start taking care of me anyway. i think i'll go get a manicure tomorrow, maybe a facial thursday, and a good swedish massage on friday. whaddaya think?

gina

[Mia lynn]

Hi Girls
I had something happen that's a A male co- worker said that he was really attracted to me and that he wanted me to be his girlfriend. If you had told me a couple of years ago that a guy would find me attractive i would have laughed. I am sooo very confused about really wo or what I am. Guess it's that Catholic school background "Thou shall not be a sissy". Should I just admit to Jim that i'm a girl and go out with him. Any advice will help girls.
Hugs
Mia Lynn