Ive been reading alot of the posts and also being straight. i dont understand why girlfriends wifes etc sometimes break up with us when they find out that we cd. if they fell for us without knowing it doesnt change us as a person. i think it makes us more aware of women i know that i can help pick out the cutest clothes when i shop with my girl and i understand more of her female isues going on then any one my friend so in some ways doesnt it make us better people.