To the TS -

I SO agree.

For some time now browsing these forums, I've learned a lot about the culture, and enough to know that I'm not the only one out there. But, I feel out of place as well because the 'fashion' being discussed is not the same kind of fashion that I'm exposed to on a daily basis .. 20y/o college student, at school with girls in skin-tight low-rise jeans, leggings, ugg boots, Abercrombie&Fitch/Hollister Co., etc. I haven't really found any people on the forum that have the same taste in fashion, as most people here seem to rather wear long skirts rather than tight low-rise skinny or flared jeans.

The CLOSEST I've had to see people with the same tastes is on Myspace. But for some reason, whenEVER I find someone into the same thing on Myspace, the person turns out to be homosexual and in need of a relationship with some out-of-line comment like, " I NEED SOME C*CK NOW! " as their Myspace bulletin. Of course, I don't have anything against gay people, but I feel like these people are dressing simply because they're gay and want to flaunt it -- I want to meet younger people JUST into the dressing, and aren't looking to be in a M4M relationship. I feel like they want to be added on Myspace, or want to talk, just because they want a relationship.

It's hard finding a nice balance. On these boards, most of the members are married and are completely straight, and only discuss the dressing -- but are older and have different tastes in fashion. On Myspace, the fashion is pretty much right down my alley, but most people seem to be gay or bi-sexual, and that turns me off because I want to meet other young CD'ers with the same tastes as me, but we can relate to the fact that we both are straight.

I think part of the problem with youthful CD'ers is the fact that it is youth, and youth seems to revolve around sex. However, I'm not like that, I just want to talk, really. This goes for all of youth, not just crossdressers. I want a relationship with a girl where sex isn't going to be the primary determinant of the relationship, but it seems like a lot, if not, most of the girls (and guys) out there are ONLY looking for sex. A bit frustrating... =/

Whatever, that's my .02. Lol

PM me if you wanna talk =]