I've managed to get to know another CD in my city via email. He wants to take me to lunch this week - while I'm dressed up!! I'll tell you up front that I will not pass. I have a mustache and my wife would kill me if I shave it off. (She doesn't know about this side of me and is no where near accepting.)
I don't have much of a wardrobe due to an unaccepting wife. But Andy (my acquaintance and date) has asked me to wear panties, bra and hose or stockings. He is going to bring a dress and heels for me to change into. And we're going to a local establishment that somewhat caters to CD's, drag queens, etc.
I'm so excited I'm beside myself! Now all of those discussions about which bathroom and things like that have suddenly become concerns. But I'm planning to have fun with it. And if it works out, who knows - maybe we'll do this again! Hope I'll be able to concentrate at work the next couple of days and be able to sleep the next couple of nights!!