Quote Originally Posted by racquel937 View Post
Wha... ???

Engaging in homosexual activities doesn't constitute being homosexual? That's the very definition of homosexuality.

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You like having oral sex with men, but you're not attached to one? There are cute guys you've had crushes on, but not most of them? Welcome to the gay single life!
IMHO sexuality is more than who you have sex with. It's who you fall in love with (men, women, both?),
how feel deep inside (masculine, feminine, gender queer?), how you present yourself to others (man, woman, neither); what kinds of bodies you like to play with is just one part of the spectrum.

We've all seen that the answers to those questions are broad, can sometimes change, and don't easily fit into categories. That's what being human is about.

Why is it so important to "know" if someone is homosexual, or did something "homosexual" or not? Isn't it more important to know if they (and their partner) were kind, happy and satisfied?