View Poll Results: Where do you dress?

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  • I only dress at home

    205 52.30%
  • I dress at home and in closed CD circles (support group + outings)

    37 9.44%
  • I dress at home and at CD friendly places (restaurants, bars, clubs...)

    53 13.52%
  • I'm out and about in the public eye (even if not 100% confident)

    97 24.74%
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  1. #26
    Hot Geezer Girl docrobbysherry's Avatar
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    My home is my---

    -- closet. Uhh, I mean "castle"?
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

    Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pamela Julie View Post
    I dress at home almost exclusively, but do go out dressed in a stealth manner often (femme jeans, tennis shoes, plain ladies tee shirt, no wig or makeup).
    Same here, dress at home, andro out and about. With red fingernails,
    blonde hair and earrings readily visible, Who am I kidding?

    Change into heels, tho, at restaurants, shows, theaters.
    Much more comfortable.
    [SIZE="4"][/SIZE][SIZE="3"][SIZE="2"]Seville[/SIZE][/SIZE]

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    Ladies I dress at home and go out and about. Malls, Grocery store, drug store clubs and restuarants. it gets real easy fter a while. lots of fun
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

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    Only dress at home, but sometimes venture out into the back garden (in the dark). Nice to feel the wind on my legs x

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    how often to go out dressed

    hay girl its all about you if you feel good about yourself tnan go for it it would be nice to have someone with but if you pass be the bitch you are and love it its nice to get over on men and bringe them down a notch or to when we need to when i go out as a gg/i dress to kill and tease the hell out of them with female power........... but then again its nice to be with a man to really feel like a women anyway allways be you and never change yove ya angie from connecticut xxxxxxxxxxxx

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    I rarely dress at home, when I dress I usually go out and that is once or twice a month. I'm not going to go through all that effort to stay home and watch a rerun on television.
    It takes a real man to wear a dress.

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    I dress regularly at home, underdress most of the time, and sometimes if i get the chance of a long drive, I wear a (see-through) blouse and remove my male gear so that i am in a couple of very long slips over my stockinged legs. Wonderful. But I would never go out shopping while dressed. Sometimes i slip into the back garden, but am always worried someone will turn up - man to read the meter, postman for a signature, etc. Does not happen often, but if it did ..........ouch!

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    I am another stay at home. I have gone out partially dressed, but nothing more. Wife approves of my CD'ing and we have talked about an outing, but I have a lot of work to do.

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    Other than an occasional Halloween outing, I am strictly a dress at home gurl.

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    Add me to the list of "dress at home"
    crossdressers...atleast for now!

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    im with some of the others..i dress and go out may be once a month if i can..anymore i just do not care...people could really care less if you dress enfemme and many SA in the stores i visit know i am a CD as i have been a loyal customer for years..its just no big deal anymore...i dress i go out and have fun...that is just who i am..your comfort level is your business...i will never slam anyone for being happy in a dress just watching football while chugging a beer..but it is a big beautiful world out there and i do enjoy going out dressed...far as shopping..it is a pain and expensive (gas $4.09 here this week).so i limit shopping anymore as well....my favorite time is just going out to spa parties..I have a wonderful cosmetic sales lady...do all my shopping before hand and spend 3 hours just having fun at the spa party..

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    I usually dress in a hotel and go out to TG friendly places where I meet other girls. Not too often at home and if I dress at home I don't go out. The wife does not approve! So I've gotten to the point that if I'm going through all the trouble to dress, do makeup and look pretty I want to go out! Otherwise it seems like a waste unless I'm taking pics!
    Staycee

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    I've never dressed at any kind of CD event and don't have access to things that are designated 'CD Friendly'... so if I want to go out, I just have to go wherever a GG would go.

    I don't get out often (It's been a few months now), but when I do it is to a shop, bookstore, grocery store, gas station or just a walk down a quite street to enjoy the weather while wearing a nice skirt or dress.

    As others have mentioned, I get a bit bored with shopping as my only activity when out, so am looking for other safe things to do as well.

    My LONG TERM goal is to do more involved things (take a night class or seminar, wait for my car while it is being worked on at a garage, attend a concert or show of some kind...) while dressed.
    Last edited by Cristi; 05-15-2008 at 04:25 PM.
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    let's not forget out in the woods! or otherwise in nature! far from prying eyes but still potentially seeable.
    or, down the street at night, late at night.

    big chicken,
    jessie
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    when i have a brand new hairdo
    with my eyelashes all in curls
    i float as the clouds on air do
    i enjoy being a girl!

    o. hammerstein - flower drum song

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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetCaroline View Post
    Fully out and about and proud of how I present myself, in public and in the lime-light of day.

    Keep in mind, a year ago, I was still strictly in the closet.

    A lot can change in a year.
    i know what you mean sweetcaroline. you will aways be that way unless you can try and start going out. today i have told most poeple were i work. and they are happy for me. i just need to tell the boss. i might do that next week. but anyway. i am a home type girl. but this weekend i am hopeing to go out enfemme. thats the hardest part, trying to go out. well you got to start somewhere.
    i am lucya even tho i was born male, under the thin skin you will find a ture woman. a woman sole is stuck in a man body, i really cant wait until next year or so, when i finnaly become my ture self 100% woman.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jessielee View Post
    let's not forget out in the woods! or otherwise in nature! far from prying eyes but still potentially seeable....
    I did that a LOT when I was a kid. I was fortunate to live in a very rural area. Our old farm house bordered hundreds of acres of woods. I would go out for hikes for hours wearing one of my favorite outfits at the time, either a green tartan knee-length woman's kilt with matching green tights, a red kilt white knee socks and white blouse from my sisters school uniform :D or an ankle-length powder blue very full 'peasant' skirt with a drawstring waist.

    I had hundreds of hours of fun being the girl 'lost in the woods' (and did come close to getting lost once or twice!) before heading back to my cache of boy clothes I'd hidden in the barn. I think back now about how lucky I was that I never ran into another hiker or hunter on one of my adventures!

    The only close call I ever had was when I got back one time to find my dad working in the barn very close to where I'd hidden my change of clothes, so I was 'forced' to stay dressed for a few more hours while I kept an eye on the barn and waited for him to finish what he was doing so I could retrieve my clothes, change and get home.

    Another interesting experience came out of this time. I was hiking in the long peasant skirt, blouse and tights one day when I realized that I was on the wrong side of a stream if I wanted to get home. The only options were to either a) cross at a bridge on a road with heavy traffic or b) go more than 2 miles upstream to a shallow point where I could step across on stones.

    I was running late getting home, so chose c) Just hike up the skirt and try to wade across.

    I was doing good (with water only knee deep, so my tights were soaked but I was able to hold my skirt out of the water) until I got about halfway across. Then I stepped on a rock that shifted under my weight. Both my hands were busy holding my skirt out of the water, so I couldn't catch my balance and went over. Now I was soaked all the way up to my neck, with a 'wet t-shirt' through my sisters white school blouse look showing my bra underneath, soaking wet tights and panties, and a skirt that now felt like it weighed 30 pounds

    The stream was never any deeper than 4' or so, so I wasn't in any danger. I just finished trudging across now that I was as wet as I was ever going to be, but it was a LONG walk back home in with the heavy heavy skirt dragging on my wet tights with every step.

    The most difficult part was sneaking my sisters blouse and bra (which I had 'borrowed' that day) through the washer and drier and back to her before she noticed they were missing. The rest of the clothes I just hung out to dry in the woods the next day...
    Last edited by Cristi; 05-15-2008 at 05:09 PM.
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    I wear female clothing when and where I please!

    I dress at home most of the time. Feminine clothes are so comfortable! But I also dress very frequently to go out in public. Not to pass as a female, just to be comfortable in my feminine clothing! I go to the P.O. almost every day dressed, and I also go shopping and out to eat. It is my body, and I will clothe it the way I want. I have reached the point where I don't really care what other people think. Surprisingly though, I get more comments like, "I really like your outfit" then I do negative ones. Once I was at a service station putting gas in my car. I was wearing a very feminine grey checked pants suit and patent leather sandals. A car pulled up behind me and the lady who stepped out was dressed exactly in the same oufit! Her comment was, "We both have very good taste, don't we?" She was definitely a GG, and I was, and am, definitely a male!

    Sissy/Stephanie

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    Home alone

    I have just came out to my wife. We are both thrilled and we would like to join a support group in my area. (Boston) But we are not aware of any. I was always dressing while home alone with the shades drawn and lights on low.
    Shawna

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    Quote Originally Posted by kayallen66 View Post
    Other than an occasional Halloween outing, I am strictly a dress at home gurl.
    And that's exactly the same for me.

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    In the past, I have been to every Payless Shoe Source store in my various areas, as well as Dress Barns, etc...even though I didn't pass. That wasn't so important. It was the subjective experience that was important. I am more content these days to stay at home...and it is no less of an experience.
    Chris

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily Anderson View Post
    I'm sorry if this has been asked before. I'm interested in knowing how many of us in this group are publicly out and about, and how many of us are stay at home girls.
    You might find this of interest?
    Nicki

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    I only dress at home. But, since I live in a pretty rural environment I occasionaly am able to get outside on the property. (As long as the nearest neighbors are out of town.) I concur with the previous comment that there is just something about the wind blowing through my skirts.

    Since I am one of the people on this forum that has no interest in passing, I suspect the pleasure has more to do wih the tactile sensation of the material on my legs than any flirting with public exposure. (However, the shrink in me won't rule that out. :D)

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    I mainly dress at home. I do go to a couple of friends homes dressed though. I have also gone to gay bars dressed. It is fun just dressing and driving around for that matter. Although the price of gas is like going to a club. Ha Ha! It feels good to go out dressed though but it doesn't really matter.
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    I stay at home mostly i have only been out dressed one time this year. and once last year.
    Really i when backwards b/c i use to go out 3 nights a week now i don't really go out at all.
    Good bye i'm at wacko taco .com now

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    At home... for now.

    The next step I'm planning on taking is getting dressed-up and going out for a drive. And maybe while I'm at it, I'll drive through a Timmy's and order a coffee! :D

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