I see regularly the comments about the rules and etiquettes that society has imposed on us, but it leads me to ponder just what is society?
I kinda get the feeling that the word society has vague connotations in peoples minds of some omnipresent force that looms over us spreading its cruel fingers of discrimination and abuse, dominating our thinking and our behaviours. It consists of everyone ELSE in the world, and they all hate us.
But are we not society? Is not society merely the group of people we interact with, including ourselves? Do we not thus have the ability to dictate what 'society's' attitudes are and how we react to that?
Sorry, kinda rambling a bit. I don't even know if I am making the point that I intended...
Let me put it this way, reading the posts here some times there'll be an answer to (sometimes very thought provoking) questions with vague answers talking about the attitude of society and what society believes is appropriate etc. but its all relative and our society today is so utterly varied that to apply ANY specific attitude to it seems a bit redundant.
I think the attitudes we apply to society and the way we perceive it is mostly derived from media, from what we read in newspapers and magazines, which anyone with half a clue should take with a generous pinch of salt at the best of times.
As if I haven't rambled enough, I'll explain a little something. I pretty much work all week, and outside of work I pretty much have immediate family and a few close friends. This is what comprises my 'society' yeah? One could probably reasonably say that society would be against a man wearing nail polish (especially in the shades of pink and purple I have been wearing lately) but no one at work or outside even cares. In the beginning there were a few questions and I replied confidently and unashamed that I just enjoy having a bit of colour on my hands. Everyone's cool with it.
I reckon if we adopt similar attitudes amongst our peers then 'society's' attitude must also change.
Also one more note: crossdressers tend to be 'hidden', and I think the fact that we take such pains to hide ourselves already sets up 'what they're doing is bad' kinda mindset. Not that I plan to out myself or anything - just saying.
Gosh, did that make sense to anyone? Apologies but I just had to vent a little... I'll end with a specific question: "What do you interpret 'society' as and what do you perceive is it's attitude towards you?"